Okay, I know this is a little bit unrelated with presentation or public speaking. But, yeah, everyone has a dream, right? And maybe I just want to write something worth reading for everyone, not just public speakers. Well, what makes you (and most people) forget dream?

1. You’re not planning about it at all

This is what most people do. Most of the time, dreams are wandering all over your head. But yeah, “wandering over” here means just something that visits and then goes. All you need to do is to stop this behavior. Pay attention to every of your idea and dream. At least you can put them on a note. Then you can take a look at them later, deciding to rather follow and build them, or to ignore them.

2. You look at what’s required to achieve that dream, and you stop

Want to be a professional footballer but don’t like it’s hard training session? You’re done, you’ll never be a professional footballer.

Whatever your excuse is, like “I don’t know how to do that”, or “I don’t have enough resources to do that”, don’t make this excuse stops you from chasing your dream and realizing your idea. Because most successful people will take a time to learn something they don’t know when they think “I don’t know how to do that”. And they will do anything to get enough resources if they think “I don’t have enough resources to do that”.

3. You only look at yourself today, not your potential

Well, most people also underestimate themselves. They think they’re not the “right person” to achieve their goals because they just look at what they can do and what they have right now. They are not thinking far enough to notice their potential, to just take a time to think about what they can do 4 months from now after learning anything required, to think about what they’ll have 4 months later when they get better job and a good increase in career. What you need to do is just to believe in yourself, specifically, about your potential.

4. You put a target, and it stresses you

“I will be a millionaire in 2 months” now this is a kind of target that will stresses you rather than motivates you.

Well, what can I really recommend about “putting target” is to make a target, then figure out how to achieve this target, and then ignore the target and it’s time limit. Now you can focus on doing things that are required to achieve the target. Just give your best to do these things, don’t mind about the target you’ve set.

5. You’re in doubt

This is a must rule for every person who want to success: never doubt something you do. Doubt is one of the biggest enemy of personal development. It’s just like when we do something, and when we’re close to the finish, we’re doubting about whether it works or not, and they we shamefully stop. We don’t know how close we are to the “finish line”, so please, never doubt something you do, there may be just one step required to reach the finish line.

That’s all from me. Just 5 reasons you must think deeply so you won’t forget any of your dream again. Well, thanks for reading !